Reflections on divorce and remarriage in contemporary African Christianity

Abstract

Ecclesiastical and theological efforts in the Christian faith have failed to build consensus or offer common teachings regarding divorce and remarriage in the contemporary society. The clergy has shunned from discussing matters relating to divorce and remarriage, thereby leaving their congregants to exacerbated marital breakup and reliance on diversified theologies presented by various denominational strands. This paper examines the issue of divorce and remarriage that has persisted throughout the history of Christianity in Africa. It is regrettable that many African Christian churches have not established proper guidance and counseling mechanisms to ameliorate their faithful on these matters. The clergy merely draw their verdict based on experiences from historical encounters, yet they are expected to handle sensitive issues related to divorce and remarriage in the contemporary society. The paper utilizes scriptural assertions on indissolubility of marriage, but also considers exclusions of continued marriage in the context of adultery and conflicts of faith as stated by Jesus Christ and St. Paul. There are examples of unbearable discrepancies that could warrant divorce. But, it is finally recommended that cases of separation, divorce and remarriage should be meritoriously handled. Divorce is discouraged, but could only be granted in scripturally and legitimately justifiable cases. Remarriage after genuine divorce should not be denied to a deserving individual because, it can provide an avenue of administering God’s grace, forgiveness, healing and love to those who have fallen from marital love.